335397 ASP SCRIPT problem

Hey there, I am looking to see why my Myspace Friend add train site [login to view URL] ([login to view URL]) is taking so long to load after clicking any buttons after the home page? The home page loads up fast, BUT FOR EXAMPLE IF YOU CLICK ON THE "MOBSTERS BUTTON" the left column on the page and text load fast but all of the myspace user profile pictures in the middle of page take 10-30 seconds to load and then the right column finally loads. I have been told by my programmer it is my server...the hosting company says its a glitch in my coding? I dont know what it is, I just need it fixed, lol! If you have any suggestions or you think you know why this is happening, please help.